Spiritual Direction I am sincerely grateful for the sessions I enjoyed with Jason as my spiritual director. I became accountable and eager to see God work powerfully in my life. Jason picked up on many areas of my life that needed my attention as we journeyed together, and noted how much I identified with Christian in Pilgrim’s Progress. I was to discover my potential as a human being fully alive in God, by developing areas such as boldness, taking new ground and listening (which I’m normally rubbish at!) Thank you Jason for giving me those precious times, reflections and insights in which I could work out my own journey! (Simon M)

Simon M

 

Spiritual Direction I’ve found Jason to be an attentive listener, incisive questioner, and that he has helped me to make space to meet with God. I’ve really enjoyed, and been challenged by, my Spiritual Direction sessions with him, and I look forward to them as valuable time in a full diary. (Jim C)

Jim C

 

Spiritual Direction I'm more than happy to give you a glowing recommendation…thank you for those wonderful sessions. (Nolan J)

Nolan J

 

Spiritual Direction Jason skilfully and sensitively follows the Spirit's lead, providing a space where God meets and speaks and where one can pause and reflect. Neither pushy nor intense, the pace and tone are just what is needed to discover, re-establish or enhance one's connection to God. If you are looking for someone who is experienced, well-trained and above all God-attuned, then you probably won't need to look any further. (Jonathan W)

Jonathan W

 

Spiritual Direction “Jason is a wonderful spiritual director.  He is a deep listener and in tune with Holy Spirit -  offering empowering questions, insights and reflections at the right time.  Meeting with Jason once a month consistently has enabled me to remain accountable and enjoy a consistent vibrant relationship with Jesus as a result.  I really appreciate you Jason.”  (Philip M)

Philip M

 

Spiritual Direction Having Jason as a Spiritual Director over the last year has helped me enormously with my own journey.  He has patiently helped me recognise the invitations from God; and having someone else walk that intentional pathway with me has made it possible for me to continue making steps, without striving, and instead I have deepened the awareness I have of the gentle still voice of God in my own life.  I am in a different place, spiritually, to when I started and I credit the gentle input from Jason for the encouragement that has made this possible.  (Mark C)

Mark C

 

Spiritual Direction I've been really blessed by my time with Jason. I live a crazy full life pastoring a church, running a technology startup, being the father of 4 and trying to be a husband, too. I've come to really cherish the chance to stop once a month and be lead into God's presence and hear his voice for me. There have been very powerful encounters that have had a profound effect on my identity in Jesus. (Matt B)

Matt B

 

Spiritual Direction I tried spiritual direction with Jason not really sure what to expect, but having heard friends talk about how valuable it can be. I’m so glad I gave it a go! It’s proved to be such a precious space to reflect and ponder on what God is doing in my life. I often start my monthly sessions with no idea what I’m going to share, and am constantly surprised at how God brings things to the surface, speaks into them, and every time I leave encouraged and with lots to think about. In a word (or three): I love it. (Matty P)

Matty P

 

Spiritual Direction “Being on the spiritual path can be lonely and confusing, especially if you’re just starting out. Jason has helped me to address some deep issues and difficult questions in my life. He brings a fresh, energising perspective to our discussions. I feel a lot more centred and grounded as a result of this work, and it’s helped to strengthen my faith too." (Mike H)

Mike H

 

Fireside Mens Retreat Fellas thanks again for an incredible experience. Great to meet you all and special thanks to Matt & Jason! (Mike)

Mike

 

Fireside Mens Retreat This has been a great weekend and has brought me another step closer to Father God. (John B)

John B

 

Spiritual Direction I have been attending regular spiritual direction with Jason for 2 years, and I am so pleased that I made the decision to start. I knew that God was real, and working around me, but I have been repeatedly amazed by how much slips past my notice every day. I hoped to find solace in challenging circumstances, and I do. But I didn't expect that there would be so much to notice and enjoy again in events that have gone well. Spiritual direction, and the opportunity to sift through everyday experiences (whether I perceive them as positive or negative) and find a glimmer of God's action and loving attention there, is a treasure that continues to sustain me. I would recommend that anyone interested in spiritual direction give it a try. You might be surprised at the depth you can experience in even one conversation. (Scott W)

Scott W

 

Fireside Mens Retreat A REALLY rich time with you guys, thank you, 5 stars for Jason & Matt for putting it together, a really engaging recipe of bushcraft, survival, spiritual health and camaraderie, and it’s not true you can hear John B snoring from a mile away… (Haydn)

Haydn

 

Fireside Mens Retreat Jason and Matt, what can I say. What a fantastic weekend spent in the company of great men. All of us, from different walks of life, all of whom were a joy to get to know, to laugh together with, to listen to and to share this fantastc weekend retreat. I feel richer for it. From the outset both Jason and Matt you made me feel at ease and under no pressure to take part in anything I wasn't comfortable with or unsure about. As it happens I immediately felt encouraged and inspired to step out of my padded life, step into nature and consider the things I take for granted everyday, to stop to really listen to God's created world around me. The way I breathe and move to benefit my physical and mental resilience and how I can intentionally prepare my mind and body as I meet with God. A common theme this weekend was that as a reasult of the world we live in, we as men find ourselves to be very busy. We struggle to know how to stop. This retreat has really helped me find ways to push aside the noise of life and intentionally center my mind on God. This weekend retreat came at the perfect time for me. Matt and Jason in facilitating this retreat so brilliantly, I now feel such a deep sence of peace and restoration and now have some really easy to use practices that I hope to weave into my everyday life. I would recommend this to everyone I know. Sign me up for the next weekend retreat!! (Marco)

Marco

 

Fireside Mens Retreat Just got back from a 24 hr retreat with Jason and Matt. I’ll be honest I didn’t expect much in 24hrs …..but it couldn’t be further from the truth….it was quite simply extraordinary. Two true men of God guiding us spiritually and physically…….never knew that the act of breathing could be so rewarding physically, mentally and spiritually. I would recommend this to all men of all ages as it is truly transformative. Thank you both for a wonderful experience (Jeremy G)

Jeremy G

 

Spiritual Direction 'My time with Jason has been such a gift to me! In his role as a spiritual director, he is so good at holding space for me to meet with God. Which has been a lifeline in all that life has brought me over the last years. The good, the bad, the ugly, Jason helps me to bring it all to the feet of Jesus. With patience, laughter, silence, a thought or reflection; Jason really gives me the feeling of being seen and known. The fruit of our time together has been a deeper communion with Christ. And it has helped me navigate in my roles as a father of young kids, husband, leader in ministry and in my work as a psychologist'. (Flo K)

Flo K

 

Spiritual Direction Jason created a much needed safe space for self reflection…his peaceful demeanour put me at ease and helped me navigate some challenging times. (Con W)

Con W

 

Spiritual Direction "Meeting with Jason every month helps me to get a better grip on my inner life. As a pastor, I prioritize longevity and spiritual direction helps me to stay emotionally and spiritually healthy. It gives me the opportunity to work through and deal with things going on beneath the surface. For me, Jason is a gentle voice of confirmation, reflection, challenge and wisdom. These meetings mean a lot to me."  (Koen P)

Koen P

 

Spiritual Direction Jason is the first spiritual director I’ve had and it has been a joy spending time with him. I didn’t really know what to expect, but from the very beginning I have found Jason so easy to talk to and feel like he hears me and understands me. Would thoroughly recommend. (Guy P)

Guy P

 

Spiritual Direction “Here’s a spiritual director that prayerfully listens and asks questions that point me toward Jesus. I’m thankful that Jason has been my spiritual director and made time to meet with me even though I am many time zones away.” (Sven D S)

Sven D S

 

Individually Guided Retreat As promised, here are my comments on the 5-day retreat last week. I am particularly grateful for two things: firstly, your quiet, open-hearted listening, combined with skillful and non-intrusive prompting and questioning - which have greatly helped me to confirm and clarify the way ahead in my life with God; and, secondly, for providing a real wealth of resources for the way ahead - both by drawing us into a deeper experience of familiar practices and by introducing us to new ones. I am steadier, calmer and more focused as a result, but the real benefit will emerge in the deeper and more trusting walk with God that I feel both called to and more equipped for. I'm deeply grateful for the care and time you took leading us through those five days, and for your readiness to adjust the programme to respond to our particular interests and needs. I pray that you, your family and your ongoing ministry may be blessed. Thank you again, and all good wishes. (Lynn J)

Lynn J

 

Individually Guided Retreat Jason is a gentle, encouraging and flexible retreat leader.  He adapted to our group’s specific and very different needs with ease, and included a variety of different spiritual disciplines.  The one-to-one sessions were a highlight for me.  Jason is a very good listener and with his gentle encouragement I felt free to talk about some difficult and painful issues in complete safety.   With best wishes. (Marion H)

Marion H

 

Spiritual Direction “During a period when I needed to refocus on the Lord, it was extremely helpful to be accompanied by Jason. He came alongside and asked the right questions to get me thinking and re- centered on listening to God’s Spirit in my heart. I warmly recommend his style and experience and the loving care he demonstrates.” (Gordon N)

Gordon N

 

Debriefing My husband and I had a joint day of debriefing/spiritual direction with Sam & Jason to kick off our sabbatical and could not recommend it highly enough. Both Jason & Sam were so welcoming, kind, fun and sensitive. We came out of the day refreshed, encouraged and empowered to step into the following months well. Their hospitality, experience and wisdom ensured for a super helpful and insightful day” (Emily S)

Emily S

 

Debriefing "After six and half years of church planting including leading through the pandemic my wife and I decided to take a sabbatical. Our first port of call was to spend a day with Sam and Jason to debrief the previous few years and tell the story so far. We found this experience to be extraordinarily worthwhile! Sam and Jason listened with love and humour, helped us to identify how and what God had been saying over the years, and to chat through some of the hurts we were carrying. Sam and Jason were really generous and insightful with their comments, helping to draw answers out of us rather than imposing their opinions, but they were also extremely generous with encouragement. We left feeling seen, loved, encouraged and empowered. We also felt lighter than air! We would do it again in a heartbeat!" (Daniel S)

Daniel S

 

Spiritual Direction "Jason, who is not of the same Christian tradition as myself, supported me through a period of transition, reflecting on my journey with understanding, insight and affirmation. He showed warmth, humour and compassion - I would thoroughly recommend him".  In Christ  (Fr David)

Fr David

 

Debriefing We had been Vineyard Church pastors for over 25 years when in 2024 we felt called to stand down and pass on our leadership of our local church to others. While the transition process was smooth, affirming and trouble free, suddenly not being in pastoral ministry, not being responsible was very strange.  Sam & Jason provided space for us to talk through our history, to examine the hurt and disappointment as well as the joy and gratitude.  We chose to have two Saturdays together, with a few months gap in between. This worked very well for us as a couple. During the first session we looked back at what had happened in the past, then had time for things to both settle and consolidate. For our second session we spoke of things that had arisen in the meantime and then looked forward and dreamt of where God might take us next. Sam & Jason hosted us beautifully in their home. It was safe, comfortable and the food was delicious. They are compassionate listeners and there was always a lot of space and freedom. They asked insightful questions and understood when to leave us in silence to think, or sit back and allow us to talk as a couple. At times they offered us prayer, at others they led us into God's presence to take issues to him, sometimes they left us alone or encouraged us to take a walk. It was a hugely beneficial process and we both felt like we were giving proper attention to the closing of a chapter in our lives and looking forward to what could be next.  (Duncan & Emma)

Duncan & Emma

 

Dutch Leaders Retreat Greatly enjoyed Jason's flexible and relaxed approach to our two day retreat! Jason has the looks of a 25 year old but has the wisdom of someone who is 52 😉. Just what our group needed. With wit, humor and being Spirit-filled he led us through the two days being sensitive to the moment and taking us deeper into the realm of spiritual formation. (Pim. V)

Pim V

 

Dutch Leaders Retreat Jason is a non anxious being ;) .This may be due to his English heritage, but knowing a little of his lifestory I suppose it has far more to do with Jesus. His gracefull reflections, flexible approach and deep experience with spiritual direction was really helpful to me. But moreover he helped me love Christ a bit more than I did before. (Henk-Jan VM)

Henk-Jan VM

 

Dutch Leaders Retreat I experienced Jason as a father figure for the group. He has an authentic calm path with him that invites me to slow down. That’s rare. He’s really curious about who you are and seeks truth in everything. From a really thankfull heart! (Ivo IJ)

Ivo IJ

 

Dutch Leaders Retreat Jason, thank you for reminding me of the power of slowing down. You lead us by example and it is beautiful to see how you integrated the contemplative into your life. You’ve got a gentle and open approach, yet determined to pursue your aims. It was an honour meeting you. (Daniel S)

Daniel S

 

Dutch Leaders Retreat Jason lives to help people grow in their life with God. He is someone who creates space for others to emerge. Jason has a genuine interest in the story of the person behind the words and titles. With him, you can feel at home because he himself is vulnerable, allowing you to simply be. With Jason, anything is possible, but nothing is forced. When you do step forward, Jason is blessed with the gift of discernment. He sees in to the spiritual realm and distinguishes what the Holy Spirit gives for encouragement and growth. After spending a weekend with a couple of young leaders and Jason on Spiritual Formation, I am absolutly convinced that every healthy leader needs this kind of authentic formation. I am grateful for it. As it has given me concrete tools for my life with God! (Felix G)

Felix G

 

Dutch Leaders Retreat After 3.5 years of seeing Jason online for my spiritual direction sessions. I thought it was time to introduce him to my friends and meet Jason in real life. I organised a retreat and invited Jason to take us on a journey. We focussed on the theme of Spiritual Formation. Six of my friends, who are also young leaders in the Netherlands, joined me on this adventure. It was such a delight to have Jason over. His calm, yet confidence presence, helped us te feel safe. He shared with us his knowledge and personal story with depth and humor. A retreat that I will never forget. We met God, we met one another in laughter and tears. Cheers to a band of brothers. More Lord! (Flo K)

Flo K

 

Dutch Leaders Retreat The first time I met Jason was in a zoom meeting in preparation for the retreat he was going to lead. I can still remember so well that Jason took us along in his plans and I was immediately emotionally touched. Not so much by the planning but by Jason's inviting presence. I immediately experienced that everything was allowed to be there. That I was allowed to be there with everything. Apart from the powerful and insightful teachings on spiritual formation and the meditative exercises, this is especially what I remember from our time with Jason. Everything is allowed to be there and God is there. This is what Jason carries with him. Do you long to come to rest and to stand still, to plug in to yourself and God? Then Jason is the man you want to have there to guide you spiritually! (Robbie VV)

Robbie VV